It’s a question that’s haunted women for years, beginning with Eve, including Cleopatra, going all the way down to the spa-going, Botox-injecting, leather-wearing females of the 21st century. How does a woman make man fall in love?
There are many ways to make man fall in love. This is one thing all relationship books, among them The Women Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave, agree on. However, there are also things about making men fall in love that women have all wrong. Let’s take a look at some of them.
1. Good sex always reels them in.
This could work, but not always. Sex does not always beget love. He might be gung-ho over the bedroom action but who says he won’t leave you afterwards? Good sex might reel them in but there’s no guarantee it could keep them. If it were true that the way to a man’s heart is through his crotch, then sex therapists and prostitutes should be enjoying the best marriages, shouldn’t they? Bottomline: good sex is not enough to make man fall in love.
2. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
The heart might virtually be next-door neighbor to the stomach but who says the contentment of one inspires devotion in the other? Good cooking can keep man happy; it can’t make man fall in love. Just look at all those Italian marriages gone bad. The wife rules over the kitchen and keeps hot, delicious meals streaming in and out. She gives birth, grows wide, goes to seed; meanwhile, he goes off to pitch for another team.
3. Make him feel needed and he will never leave you.
No, he wouldn’t but he would also feel trapped and suffocated. Trapped and suffocated are no good; they are not feelings you would associate with love. He might not leave you for the first skirt that comes along, but who says he is happy to stay? He could only be doing so out of a sense of responsibility.
Remember, infatuation or obligation is not love and ne’er the twain shall they meet. If you think the three things listed above inspire devotion in him, think again.
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